Coming Out Of My Grief

Loss of A Child

When you lose a child,
You lose a limb;
You lose a chunk of your heart-
You lose control of your whole being
and feel like you're going insane-
Because of the loss of a child.

Like a jig-saw puzzle with missing pieces,
The picture can never be completed;
Like a shattered mirror
That cannot be glued back together,
Like a compass
That has lost its needle,
There is just no replacement
For such a loss
As a loss of a child.

What would ice-cream be like
If there were no taste-buds on the tongue?
What would velvet be like
If all our sensory nerves were numb?
What would a rainbow be
If one cannot see light?
Some things just cannot be described -
Like the loss of a child.

Yet you need to function still,
With such pain,
For there are still others
Whose life revolve around you -
And you need to still
Hold it together.
Yes, Brain, hold it together,
Be careful, Heart, not to build walls of fear.

Time and seasons still moves on:
There will be beautiful days,
There will be gloomy days,
There will be days of hope
And days of anguish.
We carry on,
We carry on,
As we carry in our heart
The loss of a child.

For the One with a Broken Heart

The tears are pouring
Like the raindrops dropping
In the madness of a storm
Waiting
Waiting for a rainbow
After the rain
That never seems to appear.

Will anyone ever know
Where tears were mingled with rain?
Will anyone ever know
The real pain of your soul?
Will anyone ever know
The nights your pillows were soaked in tears?
Will anyone ever know
Will anyone ever know...


Pain and sorrow may linger...

But time will heal all wounds
And scars will tell their tales
But
Rainbows do appear and
Hope will give new life.

You will smile
And laugh again...
In time
In time to come.


Dedicated especially to my friend.